Her.

Monday, April 30, 2007 / 3:47 PM

不离不弃，仍然认为自己的老公是有出息的。

Taking from your birthdate -

26/8/1985 -> 2 + 6 = 8
28/8/1985 -> 2 + 8 = 10, 1 + 0 = 1

So what is your number?

3rd: Number 8

They will resigned to fate that they have to take on hardship with their husband. Refused to be disappointed with destiny, and continue to fight hard. Believe that they will be able to overcome any difficulties that comes along the way.

2nd: Number 9

Number 9 person believe in working hard together with the husband, hand in hand creating a better future. Always believe in the capability of the husband and very supportive.

1st: Number 5

People with high adaptability. They are able to change and switch roles as circumstances required. If their husbands are rich, they can be tai-tais, otherwise, they will also be able endure any hardship that comes along the way.

(Others, is not that they will abandon their husbands if they are out and down. Just that they will make sure that they select a capable man in the first place.)

Labels: Numerology

Friday, April 27, 2007 / 9:59 AM

原来。会那么饱。

饱得觉得脑浆崩裂。

像是吃了油腻腻的食物，恶心想呕。

欲念，是祸的根本。但做人，能没有欲望吗？无欲则无求，无求则无祸。愿苍天能怜悯世人的愚昧，给我们多一点的智慧去参透世俗的诱惑，了解欲念是祸之根本，悲之由来。掀下了一层层欲的面纱，人心还能有多纯洁？是环境造就了欲念，或是欲念成就了环境？

等待，有天，年华老去，连脂粉也上不了时，回首年少痴狂时又是何等模样。我要一直笑着，快乐得笑着。乐得夕阳西下，乐得含笑梦里。

People who will rebel when their other half interferes too much：-

Taking from your birthdate -

26/8/1985 -> 2 + 6 = 8
28/8/1985 -> 2 + 8 = 10, 1 + 0 = 1

So what is your number?

3rd: Number 2

To these people, TRUST is a big issue, by interfering too much is telling them that you do not trust them. They have a self-restraint character that will not allow themselves to side track, hence they resent any form of interference. In retaliation they will protest in silence and keep everything to themselves.

2nd: Number 1

Number 1 person is the typical rebellious kid. To rebel is in their nature, especially when they are being restrained. The more you forbid them to do something, the more they will do it, it is just like a form of demonstration to you that they are not restrainable. You can either reason with them or join in the fun.

1st: Number 9

Ah! No doubt they are the first. Number 9 person will ENJOY the attention which is showered upon them. The more you interfere, the more they will rebel. To them, your interference is a form of care and concern, and they are suckers for it. So as to get your attention, they will rebel if it is a way to have your love and concern!

Labels: Numerology

Thursday, April 26, 2007 / 11:29 PM

Wednesday, April 25, 2007 / 11:46 PM

All teethy.

Hey, we do have nice teeths right? In the study of face reading, it is very crucial to have nice teeths haha. And her eyes are hugee.. (looks like sunny side up to me sometimes hahaha).

Carol and I took this picture when we were at Hereen. I don't understand why she is still calling me Yun (you don't have to know the origin), but I kind of resigned to fate that I am stuck with it till one day she is sick of calling me that. Time really flies, and she has been calling me Yun for 10 freaking years. How did ten years just shoo pass without us really counting and knowing? *Snore* I am glad that she still loves me hahaha. We have been mugging for these few days at mac, and now I think mac food seems rather scary to me!

Boooo! It's just craziness. Sometimes, I do get myself on my nerves. It is all about knowing so much and too much, worse, i just can't treat it as a piece of rubbish information - processed and shit out. Booo. It is really nothing to do with intelligence or how clever you are. Wisdom, maybe. Just have an willing heart to learn, you learn more. It's like 'read more and know more'.

I am just not clever enough to swallow whatever I know or learnt. It is just so much information overflowing and somehow dictate my thoughts and actions. Booo at myself. I think some people might have experience this before, that you are slowly converting to what you know (not necessarily beliefs). It's scary, and by the time you realised, *dang* it's over and you have done it. Craziness. Or maybe there is just another person living within me, somewhat familiar and strange connections whereby I am able to approve and let it be when things are happening, while on the other hand, you never get to know what actually happened until it is over. Or, so..it might be a better idea to know less.

I am a dumb lass.

Tuesday, April 24, 2007 / 2:53 PM

Sunday, April 22, 2007 / 7:54 PM

又在做我的星座功课了。哈哈！星座命理，是我的兴趣。

晃着晃着，竟晃到了‘关于双子与天蝎的爱情论坛篇’。惊叹！竟有，过千篇之多。有那么的人参与讨论，这么多双子与天蝎的爱情故事。

双子先冷后热，天蝎先热后冷。

两个斗智的星座。
有时，双子比天蝎更像天蝎。
遇到了彼此，自一开始，就是一场智慧的暗战。

两个专一无比的星座。
一旦爱了，便义无反顾，付出所有。
这样的爱，多少人能小心翼翼的捧在手心里珍惜着?

两个多情及无情的星座。
爱时，地动山摇。走时，头也不回。
谁能把深情专一和冷漠无情融为一体？

他们互相吸引，但又互相排斥。
他们互相欣赏，却又互相鄙视。

也许是命运的作弄，所以一直纠缠着。

From the forum:

本以为自己无情，谁知至情处我最动情；
本以为自己洒脱，谁知离别时我最难舍；
本以为自己坚强，谁知思念中我最脆弱；
本以为自己理智，谁知投入时我最疯狂.

爱上了你会受伤，但我仍不顾一切。就像飞蛾扑火般的爱了。

Labels: 星座

Labels: Mylife

Saturday, April 21, 2007 / 10:37 PM

每一天，都是新的一天。（忘了昔日的尘埃）

事事岂能竟如人愿。

如能随心所欲之事，必定要做。

对了即好，要错了，知错能改便是。

凭着一颗爱自己的心，抱着一股热忱去感受每一天，不畏犯错（前提：要知错能改，切勿错了再错），每一天必能过得无憾。

On a side note:

I came across two blogposts on Geminians, which I personally find it rather accurate! Both websites are in chinese, so don't bother if you can't read chinese.

1. Geminians
2. Geminians

Labels: 领悟

Friday, April 20, 2007 / 12:30 PM

Taking from your birthdate -

26/8/1985 -> 2 + 6 = 8
28/8/1985 -> 2 + 8 = 10, 1 + 0 = 1

So what is your number?

3. Number 4

These group of people feel that taking good care of the children is their God-given duty. They understand the importance of childhood is to a kid (towards a bright future) and will be very enthusiastic when come to planning the growth of their kids. By this, they would have sometimes forget the existence of the other half!

2. Number 8

For them, it is as though the kid is a new hope and a new direction in their lives. And, a number 8 person will tend to be a little possessive and like to take things in his own hands. eg, your wife might be teaching your kids, you decided to interrupt and take over because you feel that your method is more efficient. By this, they would have sometimes forget the existence of the other half!

1. Number 7

Wooo... They just want to spend time ALONE with the kids! Number 7 cares a lot about communicating in a spiritual level, and feel the need to have some time alone with the kids. Deep within them, they hoped that the kids will be a replicate of themselves. By this, they would have sometimes forget the existence of the other half!

Labels: Numerology

Wednesday, April 18, 2007 / 6:05 PM

伤心时，安慰的话也无需多说。因为，再多的话也慰藉不了伤心的灵魂。伤心时，你是否觉得时间都停顿了？这时，只听到自己的心在哭泣。

悲伤时，我好想痛痛快快得哭一场，但眼睛里总找不到眼泪的踪影。于是，我笑了。一切的一切，我一笑置之。这绝对不是潇洒，也不是坚强。这是无奈。

世事的发生，都不是没有原由的。是苦，是乐，都只在你一念之间。有时，人的愚昧让我觉得可笑。不论，多少次的受伤，我们总会怨天尤人，埋怨上天的刻意作弄。想想，曾几何时，你也感谢过上天安排的缘份。如今，事不如你所愿，错的竟是上天。此理何在?

世事，有前因后果。也许，一开始就选择错误，那要如何得到正果？怨不得人，是当时自己眼光短浅，不愿认清现况，所以悲伤说破了，有时，只是活该。

如果一开始就选错了，后来也因为知错而分开，别太伤心。庆幸，因为自己能够认知错误并且放手，舍弃了错的才能遇到对的。最令人感伤的是，选对了而不能在一起。很多事，必须先知先觉，才能够避免遗憾。每一步，每一个决定，都能左右你的人生。有些人，意气用事，草率决定。有些则顾前瞻后，犹豫不决。人虽会随着年龄与经验的增长逐渐懂得拿捏其中的平衡，但要如何在对的时机作出对的选择，这还需要颇高的智慧。

时间或许是最好的良药。但我们也得给自己一个宽限期，让自己的心，即使还在受伤，也要懂得如何去开心。否则，时间也许，是你最可怕的噩梦。纠缠不清 - 我在想，有些人就是要纠缠不清才能够过日子。纠缠不清，就好像是把连续剧里的情节给搬演出来。观众都在电视机前，叹着气摇着头，但天天必有人都在上演这个戏码。是犹豫不决，是藕断丝连，还是剪不断，理还乱的纠缠着？

为何会如此伤感？是他伤了你的心，或是你让他伤了你的心？伤心，是欲念的衍生。渴望得到而得不到，渴望拥有而拥有不了。你是否知道自己想要得是什么？是刹那的快乐，还是永久的幸福？你想要的是风花雪月，或是平静生活？是安全感，还是快感？

往往，伤心是因为得到了自己不想得到的结果。有多少人，能够清楚明白自己想要的是什么呢？但起码，我们得清楚知道自己不要的是什么。想想，伤心也没什么。是人，都有情感，当然也会伤心。人总是连自己的感受也接受不了，所以总在一个圈圈里打转着。能够坦然地接受自己的感受，是非常重要的，这是一种爱护自己的表现，也是迈向‘随遇而安’的第一步。

且勿把悲伤当成一个伤害自己或别人的理由。因为伤悲的犯下的错，是愚昧即不会被谅解的。人生苦短，岁月匆匆，别伤心太久了！

Labels: Problem Solving, Relationships, Working on Your Subconscious, 领悟

你冷若冰山，你若即若离，你故弄玄虚。

你热情如火，你扣人心玄，你用情至深。

你是冰山下的火种。

是胆识过人或是不懂畏惧，从未想过会被那熊熊火焰灼伤。不怕。最怕的是，伸手触摸，感觉到的只是冰冷。这种冷，或许足以把自己的心也给冻结了。

人生要如何了无遗憾？可能，有时就是得不知畏惧吧。

Monday, April 16, 2007 / 12:20 AM

昨晚的雨好大。

我的心也无比的沉重。

我真的不愿设身处地的为别人的谎言寻找理由。真的很气愤耍心机的人！难道，不能活得平凡一点吗？或者，有些人视耍心机为他们平凡生活的一部分？令人厌恶。

‘信缘份之人，必明白缘份之玄，但如何识破其中的玄机还需莫高的智慧。’

要懂得认为首要。正所谓认得，要先认才有得。认知以后，还要懂得如何去追求。倘若，你已认定目标，就该逐步地向目标前进，切勿守株待兔。缘份 - 就是把两个分开的人（= 份）结合在一起，称之为缘。无论是漫长的等待或是快速的追逐，胜利的是能够相识相知相惜直到白头的我们。

是直觉或是错觉，这无需经验。只要能戴眼识人便是。从此，是对即好，是错也罢。
。
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出气篇，怎变成缘份篇？：Ｘ

Sunday, April 15, 2007 / 1:05 PM

This is a short one

Taking from your birthdate -
26/8/1985 -> 2 + 6 = 8
28/8/1985 -> 2 + 8 = 10, 1 + 0 = 1

So what is your number?

3rd: Number 1

Number 1 person always feel that they are different from the rest of their fellow mates, as though they are a natural born leader. To them, only your ability matters. How well you manage yourself, your career and your problem-solving skills is the yardstick they hold in their heart. Looks do not matters at all!

2nd: Number 3

Number 3 person are usually quite artistic, or rather they know how to appreciate beautiful things. They usually admire people who are talented, be it singing, drawing or even the art of persuasion. Looks do not matters at all!

1st: Number 2

Number 2 person are like kids that never grow up, and usually hold a naive perspective towards this world. They need people who are devoted to them 101%, know how to take good care of them and give them tons of security. Looks do not matters at all!

Labels: Numerology

Friday, April 13, 2007 / 11:57 PM

也许，是感触的共鸣，或是回忆的宣泄。听了这么多遍，还是这么爱听。孙燕姿 - 我怀念的。

嗯，我的华语发音相当差。极少用华语来交谈，想要好好的思绪联成一句话，有时还真是颇有困难。一向来，对华文就有一股热忱。也许，是因为英文较差，所以渐渐的也冷落了我的母语。近来，我慢慢的把我的思想写成文字，写完之后，自己略略的读了一遍。惊叹的是，语文如学踏脚车，不会被遗忘。而华文的巧妙，是无法言喻的。我似乎发现了一个抒发情绪的管道，真的觉得很感恩。

该感恩的事，太多了。

你是个完美主义者吗？或是挂着‘完美主义’的名号在钻牛角尖？还是，完美主义者必钻牛角尖？

如何，才算是完美？在每个人的心中，必定有他完美的指标。你的指标是否实在？对与很多事，我都会用一种‘欣赏’的角度去看待。因为，很明白，刻意的寻找完美是不切实际的。即使不完美，也是一种美 - ‘缺陷美’。有时，人与人之间保持的距离 - 那是一种‘距离美’。甚至两个人默默无言，能感受着对方的气息，也是一种美。人，要懂得随遇而安，随遇而安更是一种难能可贵的美。

试想，一个抱在怀里的宝宝，对你慧心的一笑。你能不动容吗？那是人的本质，毫不怀疑的去接受，去付出。也许，宝宝就是如此的单纯，所以能够博君一笑。我仍然相信，每个人的拥有一颗赤子之心。也许，是岁月的历练模糊了视野，也封闭了你的心。有多少次，一个人能够单纯的去爱，去完全的接受与付出？单纯的去看待一切事物？倘若，长时间的疑惑，你还能单纯吗？你能明白单纯为何吗？

我不愿。千万个不愿。不愿用怀疑的心态去看待这世界。尽管周遭的人事物有多么的复杂，我依然宁愿单纯的看待一切。

今天的我，‘宁为玉碎，不为瓦全’是在追求完美，还是明白了解？这是固执，还是坚持？有时，真是模糊一线。但我坚信，踏出的每一步都是对的。未来，一定更美好。

还要感恩的事，会更多。

Labels: Self development, 领悟

眼泪是让你知道自己还活着，悲伤也在同时如泪水涌现般的离你而去。它似乎记载着你的痛楚，你的悲伤，和你的无奈，在你最好无防备，最脆弱的时候，泪水就如泉水般的涌现，仿佛在安慰你的灵魂。

最可怕的是，当你伤心不已，痛苦不堪时，却找不到泪水。此时，悲该往何处？

所以，流泪也是一种幸福。

也许，多了安静的片刻，或是我的思绪从未安静过。每天，对我而言，都是充满感动的。一幕幕记忆犹新的画面，仿佛在看幻灯片似的，我的心一直被牵动着。

我想，有时，人总需要一个倾诉的对象，一个知己，一个明白了解自己的人。这，也许，就是我不舍的理由。

每一天，我都在从新的了解自己。回想种种经历，自己的感受，所作所为，反应，甚至事物的理念与价值观。今天的我，认为原则并不是重点。大多人，都为自己立下了一些条规，来捍卫自己的价值观与自尊 - 他们称这些条规为‘原则’，它们逐渐变成了一条条不成名的条文刻在人心里的石碑上，时时刻刻提醒自己的‘原则’究竟有多重要，仿佛神圣而不可侵犯。

对我而言，那是一条又一条步不成章的执著，一条又一条让人不开心的理由。做人，就是要放宽自己的心情。所谓‘原则’，就是原来的条则。你记得几年前，令你痛心甚至流泪的事吗？在那个时候，你立下了条规，答应自己，不会再犯同样的错 - 那是你的原则。

事过境迁，你也经历了不少事，你还在秉持当年的原则吗？如今，如果幸福与你的原则背道而驰，你会做何选择？倘若你坚信只有秉持原则才能得到幸福，那既是幸福悄悄离去，你也浑然不知。人必须懂得变通，切记，水能载舟，既能覆舟。一个原则，不可大概论及它。更何况，人事与物一直在变，又何苦死守一个久久以前为自己立下的条规？

并不是少了一些原则，人生就会乱了章法。放下了原则，我们还是有价值观和个人观点，只是少了些烦恼。

不再执著，是在宽容自己。

Labels: Self development, 领悟

Thursday, April 12, 2007 / 11:29 AM

妈妈叫双子起床：‘快点起床！公鸡都叫好几遍了！’
双子说：‘公鸡叫和我有什么关系？我又不是母鸡！’　

射手：‘爸爸，为什么你有那么多白头发？’
爸爸：‘因为你不乖，所以爸爸有好多白头发啊。’
射手 - （疑惑中）
射手：‘那为什么爷爷全都是白头发呢？’
爸爸：　ｚｚｚｚ

宝瓶问妈妈：‘为什么称将先生为“先人”？’
妈妈：‘因为‘先人’是对死去的人的称呼。’
宝瓶：‘那，死去的奶奶是不是叫‘鲜奶’？

哈哈哈哈！！

Labels: Humor

Wednesday, April 11, 2007 / 7:14 PM

那天，爸爸载我上学，又跟我说教了。不知为何，听了这么多年，甚至有些从复，我还是爱听。我想，说教，就是他对我的关爱吧。那天，我有些冲动想对爸爸诉苦，但我害怕。害怕面子挂不住。哈哈。就是那么好笑！自小，再怎么不懂事，什么问题都往自己身上栏。虽然，跌跌撞撞，吃了不少亏，但总算在爸爸的眼里，我还算是一个坚强的小孩。真是说不出口。

是否，拥有坚强的外表，就更难表现得脆弱?

当然，即使外表坚强，内心也可以是脆弱了。试想，拥有了多年坚强的外表，是否会忘了内心是如何的脆弱？即使，内外坚强，哪怕是当爱情莅临时，也可把所有的坚强全部瓦解。

在爱情里，我们都是凡夫俗子，都渴望被关爱，被珍惜，被重视。这些渴望，会把种种繁琐及从所未有的情感给呼唤醒来。此时，才了解我们到底有多爱。爱能让你欣喜若狂，也能让你沮丧至极。。。爱就是如此俗不可耐！在爱情里，坚强是毫无意义的，与很多事不同，它需要两个人的愿意和努力。

昨晚，和一个朋友聊天，说到爱。他告诉我，有时爱得太深，会因为害怕伤得深，而选择逃避。但总有一天，会遇到一个爱得深，而不会让你想逃的人。无论你有再坚强的外在或是内心，都甘心做个凡夫俗子。

心想，逃避是多么懦弱的行为。爱情，总是让人举止反常，思绪混乱。想必逃避，也是整理思绪与心情最好的途径之一吧！

还有，去爱一个你不爱的人和不爱你已很爱的人有一共同点；一样的艰辛。

现在真的觉得，心里的感触，多得快溢出来了。感觉是如此的汹涌。

‘谁爱得太自由
谁过头爱了
谁要走我的心
谁忘了那就是承诺
谁自顾自地走
谁忘了看着我
谁让爱变执著

我放手
我让座
假洒脱
谁懂我多么不舍得
太爱了
所以我
没有哭’

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I read this from another blog:

世界上最远的距离


　　世界上最远的距离
　　不是 生与死的距离
　　而是 我站在你面前 你不知道我爱你
　　世界上最远的距离
　　不是 我站在你面前 你不知道我爱你
　　而是 爱到痴迷 却不能说我爱你
　　世界上最远的距离
　　不是 我不能说我爱你
　　而是 想你痛彻心脾 却只能深埋心底
　　世界上最远的距离
　　不是 我不能说我想你
　　而是 彼此相爱 却不能够在一起
　　世界上最远的距离
　　不是 彼此相爱 却不能够在一起
　　而是 明知道真爱无敌 却装作毫不在意

下次再爱，非得找个很爱很爱我的人。:D

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Tuesday, April 10, 2007 / 11:53 AM

Have you guys do things that you ever regret (discounting all those childhood mistakes you made)?

Regret - is to be sad and remorseful of undesirable something that happened, because of your decision or your not-deciding. It could also be followed by a trait of a sense of loss and disappointment.

For me, I am trying to make sure that each step I take, I do not regret. Yes, sometimes, the decision you make might not be correct, and that does not necessarily means it will lead to regret. At each point of time, when I am making decision, I take it to heart that the results might not be what I desired. Hence, I will think about the possibilities of events with the decision I make, and usually I will come up with a worst case scenario (please do not be too optimistic when come to thinking of a worst care scenario) and asked if I still want to carry on with my decision if it eventually leads to the happening of the worst. Only when the answer is yes, then I will go ahead.

I guess, this principle has becoming much like a common sense to me since I exercise it so often, even when it comes to things like if I were to meet a friend. Yah, it sounds nonsensical. I just do not want to regret any decision that I make.

It could be a wasted trip, I might have just spend the energy and time on something better. I might not want to stay out late etc.

When it comes to something bigger, like taking on a job or if to be/breakup with someone, it would be even wiser to use this 'common sense'. And after so used to using it, you tend to make each decision with a cushion in case the worst did happened. It's like, you make it to a habit of thought through each decision with care, which minimized your chance of regreting.

Each day, is a brand new day. If there is ever any regrets in your life, it is not happening again. We all do learn from lessons right? = )

Brave on!

Labels: Emotional Control

Saturday, April 07, 2007 / 11:23 AM

Talking about having daily dosage.

Coffee.

How many times have you heard your friends saying that Coffee is bad, Caffeine is bad for your health?

How many times when you ask them how harmful is Caffeine, you find them scrambling for words to convince you?

I love Coffee. I guess I become addicted to it without me knowing, with Coffee Bean, Starbucks and various coffee houses spouting. The aroma of Coffee just put a smile on my face - and this is not exaggerating, I simply love it.

Bribe me with a cup of Vanilla Latte.

Caffeine is found in plants like coffee, tea and cocoa (minimal). It is also found in numerous plants - a naturally occurring complex organic, where by it acts as a natural pesticide that paralyzes and kills certain insects feeding on them.

Tea usually have half as much caffeine as coffee, mostly back or oolong tea. And to my surprise, green tea, those we have in Japanese restaurant contains caffeine too. I always thought only black tea have caffeine. (Wooah)

Chocolate also contain caffeine, but worry not, it's very minimum. That's why some people can get hook to chocolate too, if consumed in excess.

Consumption of caffeine does not eliminate the need for sleep; it only temporarily reduces the sensation of being tired - with this, it increase the capacity for mental or physical labor. Caffeine is a central nervous system stimulant. In moderate doses, caffeine can:

1. increase alertness
2. cause insomnia
3. cause headaches, nervousness and dizziness

In large amounts, especially over extended periods of time, caffeine can lead to a condition known as 'caffeine-ism', causing physical and mental conditions including nervousness, irritability, anxiety (anxiety disorder), muscle twitching, insomnia (sleeping disorder), headaches and heart palpitations.

It will take about 6-8 hours for our body (young adults) to eliminate the caffeine consume, 18-22 hours for pregnant woman.

1 cup of coffee usually contained 135mg of caffeine, and to develop an reliance on coffee;overuse - we have to consume 400mg or more caffeine everyday. Long term drinking of coffee will reduce our caffeine sensitivity towards it, thus will subconsciously wanting to drink more. It acts like a drug within our body, making us to want more of it. As we grow older, our body might not be able to effectively eliminate the effect of caffeine or find the dosage satisfactory.

A friend even link the love for coffee with the love for sex - how you feel/think about coffee is akin your perspective towards sex. I find it amusing. Haha.. and yah, I stil love coffee and have not prepared to call it quit.

Wednesday, April 04, 2007 / 4:41 PM

Are you those who will be amazed by the works the nature?

Tropical rainforest, waterfalls, bright sunshine and the misty mountain with spring water. It is kind of hard to explain the excitement with just the thought of being there, getting so close to the nature.

Vythiri is my current dream travel destination! Hehehe it is a city in Southern India. LOL

Vythiri is one of the most beautiful hill stations at the northeastern tip of Indian state of Kerala's Wayanad district. The place is famous for its lush green sprawling plantation of coffee, tea, pepper and rubber. The misty hills with full of lush green vegetation provide a breathtaking view to its visitors. The fresh and pristine breeze laden with the fragrance of nature soothes and refreshes your mind and soul - (from wikitravel)

Okay, the thing that really attracts me the most is the unique Tree Houses! Hee

Vythiri hill resort in the heart of the forests of Wayanad. These wooden lodges are about 90 ft on trees in the evergreen forests of Kerela, these houses brings you closer to the pleasant natural environment of tropical. Imagine waking up to the chirping of birds and exotic smell of nature. I wonder how's the view up there, imagine the moon light shines onto your bed, you are so near so near to the nature. Best, if you are there with your loved ones, embrace the nature in each other arms!

Or..go to UK Carley Mill to visit their rose and lavender farm also not bad. Immense yourself in the scent of the nature! Weee..

Labels: Travelling, Vythiri

This is such a surprise!

This blogskin is such a surprise, I never thought that I will go for colour like this (really really!!). I always like it plain and simple. Qing says that my blog is so white and plain, and I actually thought that it is nice to be white and plain. I am not by nature someone who is fanciful, and I thought it is quite soothing; just like reading newspaper, hahaha!

I am sooo boring haha.

Monday, April 02, 2007 / 11:21 AM

Woo.. last night, I stand up and walk out to the living room and dial her number and the voicemail was talking. As usual, I called again immediately and then it was engaged. Next, my phone is ringing. She called!! (without knowing that I was calling her) Wooo.. is our brain signal to each other so strong that we called each other at the same time, the very minute or even the very second? I woke up, and are still amazed by what happened last night. Just in case, you think this kind of scenario is nothing uncommon, think again, if it happens more than a few times with the same person. Be amazed by the works of the unseen. Hehehe.

Could anyone just 'Missing-in-Action' (MIA) from your life without any rhyme or reason? (with reference to Qing's blog hee)

No. No one can just MIA from your life without any reason, though the reason might not have anything to do with you. I am almost certain that everyone experience this before, be it you are the one who cut others off ('cutter') or being cut off ('the cut'). The reason behind him/her MIA-ing is not really important, as for whatever reason that propel it from happening, it has already happened. My best advice is that, if you are the person who got cut off, do not brood over why this person just MIA from your life (even after some effort to get this person back), and to your amazement, the 'cutter' might not even realised that he/she has already cut you off. Looking from two different angles, the 'cutter' might cut you off deliberately or unintentionally, but you will never know unless he tells you.

The best for 'the cut' to do is not to place unnecessarily assumptions on what has propel this to happen, when you do not care too much, things are easier to handle.

1. Focus on what You Have to Do

Be it studies or meeting your sales target. Set your priorities right, and don't waste time thinking of the unnecessary. You can think for the whole day and waste your life away bit by bit, and the situation remains. Don't waste your energy.

This is like first principle to follow whenever something hits you, focus on what you have to do. Do not let another person's action determine your mood and thwart your plans.

2. Taking on an Initiative Role

So, the person just cut you off and despite all the reasoning going on in your head, you just couldn't figure out why would he/she want to do that. You can contact him/her, hunt the person down and ask him/her the big WHY. It seems as though you are overdoing it, looking it from another perspective, the cutter might be the one who is overdoing it in the first place by cutting you off. Confrontation might seems scary and too much to stomach at times, don't be frightened by the thought of confrontation and the consequences that follows. You are merely asking for an answer.

To take on this approach, you must be someone who is not willing to take evasion as an answer, which is good in my opinion. At least, you have an idea of what's going on, be it good or bad.

3. Patience - the Passive Role

Okay, you can't take confrontation face to face, it's alright. The lest you should have is patience. Wait for the person to contact you on his/her own accord. Please do not think that by waiting, the person actually have an edge over you. In the first place, when the cutter cut u off, you cared and pondered about what has happened and this, already shows that the person have an edge over you. It doesn't matter in this age, who has an edge over who. If this is a sincere relationship, does it matter who has an edge over who? And if this is not a sincere relationship in the first place, do you think anything really matters at all?

And, anyway, by waiting, the cutter would not have know how much you cared. The key is that, please do not wait in misery. You are just merely waiting for something that might have a conclusion, so wait till it is concluded, you should have be waiting for it in misery.

Man is generally quite forgetful, I really do not think that who is able to ignore who forever, of course unless, their paths do not cross again.

Usually I would have encouraged 'the cut' to contact the 'cutter', as you might not know the real reason behind him/her being MIA, and definitely by guessing, you are seldom or never right. They could have just gone missing because they are going through a rough patch, putting themselves in isolation. Of course, they could have gone missing simply because you are a pest. So do try to find out reasons behind his/her action, that's a basic concern for people around you. Here, if the cutter still refused to contact you, then just let things be. If everything else fails, always remember that time can take care of it.

If only one person went missing in your life, most probably the problem lies with the cutter. Otherwise, you need to do some self-reflections. Heehee :D

Labels: Problem Solving, Relationships

Sunday, April 01, 2007 / 9:04 PM

Labels: Mylife

Like An Angel

Just me and me. Here. =)

"Successful people did not get there by chance, they got there by design."

Look at the stars, and not the reflection of the moon.

A 6-digit salary
Absolutely healthy body

Your Journey Does Not End Here

Wipe
Your
Tears
And
Say
Your
Goodbyes

Never Forget Your Thank Yous

Topsy-Turvy (Designer)
Kurt Halsey (Drawings)

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